1	3 A Woman Workshop
2	How does a helper (wife) please her husband? Attract (face, hair, perfume…) Adapt Appease (bring peace) This will make your Husband happy (AAA)
3	1) Attract Be and feel attractive (face, hair, perfume…)
4	1) Attract Titus 2:5 They can teach the younger women to be wise and to be pure, to take care of their homes; to be kind, and to obey their husbands. Then no person will be able to criticize the teaching God gave us.
5	1) Attract Modest, Good Behavior and Humility
6	1) Attract Heb 13:4 Marriage should be honored by all people. And every marriage should be kept pure between only two people. God will judge guilty those people who do sexual sins and adultery. (keep bed pure – no adultery)
7	2) Adapt 1 Cor 11:8-9 Man did not come from woman. Woman come from man. And man was not made for woman. Woman was made for man.
8	2) Adapt 3 steps 1- Verbally Ask your husband “Say please” wife should not have a bad attitude wife should not bother (nag) husband stop complaining! Remember: wife should say “please” then “thank you”
9	2) Adapt 3 steps 2- Mentally Accept Say “OK” Think about it Submit Stop Complaining If husband does not listen, wife should accept and continue in a positive mindset. If wife does not accept her husband she can destroy the home!
10	2) Adapt 3 steps 3- Physically Adjust Change your way Think about the good things your husband does If your husband does not change then you should continue to think positive and accept the situation.
11	3) Appease Wife serves husband’s 4 needs: Body (2) = Food and Sex Soul (2) = Relationship and Appreciation (Admiration / encouragement)
12	3) Appease BODY FOOD Always cook husband’s favorite food Don’t be late (anticipate your husband’s needs). Don’t let him go hungry!
13	3) Appease BODY SEX (1 Cor 7: 2-5) But sexual sin is a danger. So each man should have his own wife. And each woman should have her own husband.
14	3) Appease The wife’s body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband’s body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife.
15	3) Appease Don’t refuse to give your bodies to each other. But you might both agree to stay away from sex for a time. You might do this so that you can give your time to prayer. Then come together again. This is so that Satan (the Devil) cannot tempt you in your weakness.
16	3) Appease BODY SEX (1 Cor 7: 2-5) If wife doesn’t satisfy her husband, then he may desire other women. Wife should initiate (start) sex with husband, touching him, then you will not be bored.
17	3) Appease SOUL RELATIONSHIP (companionship) Husband desires relationship with wife. (wife should focus on her husband more than others) Wife serves husband first, then kids. If husband likes to watch TV then wife adapts to relate with husband. Wife cannot say “I can’t watch TV with husband because I am busy with kids”.
18	3) Appease Wife serves who?:
19	3) Appease SOUL APPRECIATION (Admiration/encouragement) Admiration – Good father!!! (always be honest) You know a lot about computers!!! Wow!!! You are smart!!! Wife needs to encourage her husband (it will make him better) If wife criticizes her husband it will get worse